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Quotes About Emotional Intelligence

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What do researchers and psychologists have to say about emotional intelligence? Psychologists have proposed a variety of definitions, discussed the potential benefits, and offered critical analysis of differing theoretical models. The following quotes are just a sampling of what has been written on the topic of emotional intelligence.

Defining Emotional Intelligence

  • David Caruso: “It is very important to understand that emotional intelligence is not the opposite of intelligence, it is not the triumph of heart over head -- it is the unique intersection of both.”
    --From (“Emotional What?”)

  • Freedman et al.: "Emotional Intelligence is a way of recognizing, understanding, and choosing how we think, feel, and act. It shapes our interactions with others and our understanding of ourselves. It defines how and what we learn; it allows us to set priorities; it determines the majority of our daily actions. Research suggests it is responsible for as much as 80% of the "success" in our lives."
    --From Handle With Care: Emotional Intelligence Activity Book

  • Salovey & Mayer: “We define emotional intelligence as the subset of social intelligence that involves the ability to monitor one's own and others' feelings and emotions, to discriminate among them and to use this information to guide one's thinking and actions.”
    --From “Emotional Intelligence,” 1990

  • Mayer & Cobb: “The ability to process emotional information, particularly as it involves the perception, assimilation, understanding, and management of emotion."
    --From "Educational policy on emotional intelligence: Does it make sense?", 2000

The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

  • John Gottman: "In the last decade or so, science has discovered a tremendous amount about the role emotions play in our lives. Researchers have found that even more than IQ, your emotional awareness and abilities to handle feelings will determine your success and happiness in all walks of life, including family relationships."
    --From Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child

  • McCown et al: "Experiencing one's self in a conscious manner--that is, gaining self-knowledge--is an integral part of learning."
    --From Self-Science: The Emotional Intelligence Curriculum

  • Salovey, Mayer, Goldman, Turvey, and Palfai: "People in good moods are better at inductive reasoning and creative problem solving."
    --From Emotion, Disclosure, and Health, 1995

  • John D. Mayer: "An emotion occurs when there are certain biological, certain experiential, and certain cognitive states which all occur simultaneously."
    --From EQ Today, Spring 1999

  • Mayer & Salovey: "People high in emotional intelligence are expected to progress more quickly through the abilities designated and to master more of them."
    --From “What is Emotional Intelligence” in Emotional Development and Emotional Intelligence: Educational Implications, by Peter Salovey and David Sluyter. 1997

Criticisms of Emotional Intelligence Research

  • Hans Eysenck on Goleman’s work: "[he] exemplifies more clearly than most the fundamental absurdity of the tendency to class almost any type of behaviour as an 'intelligence'…If these five 'abilities' define 'emotional intelligence', we would expect some evidence that they are highly correlated; Goleman admits that they might be quite uncorrelated, and in any case if we cannot measure them, how do we know they are related? So the whole theory is built on quicksand; there is no sound scientific basis."
    --From Intelligence: A New Look, 2000

The Future of Emotional Intelligence

  • Peter Salovey: “I think in the coming decade we will see well-conducted research demonstrating that emotional skills and competencies predict positive outcomes at home with one’s family, in school, and at work. The real challenge is to show that emotional intelligence matters over-and-above psychological constructs that have been measured for decades like personality and IQ. I believe that emotional intelligence holds this promise."
    --From “Emotional What?” EQ Today
References:

Beasley, K. (1987) “The Emotional Quotient.” Mensa Magazine - United Kingdom Edition

“Emotional What?: Definitions and History of Emotional Intelligence” EQ Today

Eysenck, H. (2000). Intelligence: A New Look, Transaction Publishers.

Mayer, J.D. “Can self-report measures contribute to the study of emotional intelligence.”

Mayer, JD, & Cobb, CD (2000). Educational policy on emotional intelligence: Does it make sense? Educational Psychology Review, 12, 163-183.

Salovey, P., Mayer, J. D., Goldman, S. L., Turvey, C., & Palfai, T. P. (1995). Emotional attention, clarity, and repair: Exploring emotional intelligence using the Trait Meta-Mood Scale. In J. W. Pennebaker (Ed.), Emotion, disclosure, and health (pp. 125-154). Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.

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