Why Do People Blame the Victim?

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Blaming the victim is a phenomenon in which victims of crimes or tragedies are held accountable for what happened to them. Victim blaming allows people to believe that such events could never happen to them. Blaming the victim is known to occur in rape and sexual assault cases, where the victim of the crime is often accused of inviting the attack due to her clothing or behavior.

At a Glance

Blaming the victim is an unfortunate yet common phenomenon. It often happens because people make faulty attributions to explain events. But it can also be a way for people to feel safer by assuming that they would never become a victim. Blaming the victim might help protect people's worldview, but it deprives people who have been harmed from the empathy and support that they need.

Examples of Blaming the Victim

Examples of victim-blaming comments include:

  • "You must have known that was going to happen." 
  • "Why were you out at night?"
  • "She must have provoked him."
  • "Why didn't you say something earlier?"
  • "You shouldn't have been drinking."

These types of questions, sadly, are not uncommon after people hear about a terrible event.

Why, after such a horrible crime, do so many people seem to "blame the victim" for their circumstances?

When news reports surfaced of a woman being raped, many questions center on what the victims were wearing or doing that might have "provoked" the attack. When people are mugged, others frequently wonder what victims were doing out so late at night or why they did not take extra measures to protect themselves from the crime.

What Causes Blaming the Victim?

Victim-blaming can be confusing. What is behind this tendency to blame the victim?

Our Attributions Contribute

One psychological phenomenon that contributes to this tendency to lay the blame on the victim is known as the fundamental attribution error.

The fundamental attribution error is a bias that involves attributing other people’s behaviors to internal, personal characteristics while ignoring external forces and variables that also might have played a role.

When a classmate flunks a test, for example, you probably attribute their behavior to a variety of internal characteristics. You might believe that the other student didn’t study hard enough, isn’t smart enough, or is just plain lazy.

If you were to fail a test, however, what would you blame your poor performance on? In many cases, people blame their failings on external sources. You might protest that the room was too hot and you couldn’t concentrate, or that the teacher didn’t grade the test fairly or included too many trick questions.

Hindsight Is 20/20

Another issue that contributes to our tendency to blame the victim is known as the hindsight bias.

  • When we look at an event that happened in the past, we have a tendency to believe that we should have been able to see the signs and predict the outcome.
  • This hindsight makes it seem like the victims of a crime, accident, or another form of misfortune should have been able to predict and prevent whatever problem might have befallen them.

And this isn’t just something that happens when we are looking at things such as rape or assault. When someone becomes ill, people often seek to blame past behaviors for a person’s current state of health.

Cancer? They should have stopped smoking. Heart disease? Well, I guess they should have exercised more. Food poisoning? Should have known better than to have eaten at that new restaurant.

Such cases of blame seem to suggest that people should have simply known or expected such things to happen given their behavior, while in truth there was no way to predict the outcome.

We Like to Believe Life Is Fair When It Isn't

Our tendency to blame the victim also stems in part from our need to believe that the world is a fair and just place. When something bad happens to another person, we often believe that they must have done something to deserve such a fate. Social psychologists refer to this tendency as the just-world phenomenon.

Why do we feel this need to believe that the world is just and that people get what they deserve?

Bad Things Can Happen to Anyone, Even You

Because if we think that the world is not fair, then it becomes more apparent that anyone can fall victim to tragedy. Yes, even you, your friends, your family, and your other loved ones. No matter how cautious and conscientious you might be, bad things can and do happen to good people.

But by believing that the world is fair, by believing that people deserve what they get, and by blaming the victim, people are able to protect their illusion that such terrible things could never happen to them.

Lack of Empathy

Victim blaming can also stem from a lack of empathy for others. People who lack empathy are often extremely critical of others. They usually dislike coping with emotional situations and don't think about other people's experiences or perspectives when interpreting situations.

Because of this lack of empathy, they are more likely to blame people when bad things happen to them. They are also less likely to offer to help.

The Effects of Blaming the Victim

Victim blaming can be devastating to people who have been harmed by crime, disaster, assualt, or trauma. Blaming the victim:

  • Contributes to stigma, shame, and self-blame
  • Discourages people from seeking help
  • Focuses on the victims' behaviors instead of the assailants' actions
  • Make it difficult for victims to get the help and support that they need
  • Silences survivors
  • Contributes to mental health problems, including depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and suicidal thinking
  • Contributes to rape culture

How to Combat Blaming the Victim

The reality is that you've probably engaged in victim blaming at some point or another. You may have dismissed someone's experience and believed that it was their own fault. However, there are things that you can do to help prevent it in the future:

What This Means For You

Bad things can and probably will happen to you at some point in your life. So the next time you find yourself wondering what someone else did to bring on their misfortune, take a moment to consider the psychological attributions and biases that affect your judgment. Rather than blame the victim, try putting yourself in that person’s shoes and perhaps try a little empathy instead.

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Additional Reading

By Kendra Cherry, MSEd
Kendra Cherry, MS, is a psychosocial rehabilitation specialist, psychology educator, and author of the "Everything Psychology Book."